once you’ve found a family
Once you’ve found a family to work for, a large part of your work is done. If you’ve had a fair amount of communication with them, know each other’s expectations, and have ironed out the details of your stay, it’s time to sign on the dotted contract line. More than likely, either the agency or your host family will arrange for a contract to be sent to you. As long as everything is clearly spelled out, and you’ve had someone (preferably an attorney) check over it, you can be confident in closing the deal.
The next most important step is to get a valid passport, if you don’t have one already. This is a must and will take roughly four weeks to get, costing a hefty $100.00. You can have it expedited, but this is more expensive, so you may as well plan ahead to spend the smallest amount possible. Everything you need to know concerning passports and other travel related questions can be found at the international travel section of the US State Department’s website: http://travel.state.gov/travel/travel_1744.html
If you have your contract and passport in hand (be sure to make copies of both, by the way - one set to leave with your parents or other responsible party, the other set to keep on hand ‘just in case’), you are much closer to making your way abroad and are ready to make your travel arrangements.
If you’ve found a generous (or desperate) host family, you may have part or all of your airfare cost covered, which is very nice. I highly recommend at least asking if the family can help you with your flight. Asking never hurts and your family’s willingness to help might surprise you. Keep in mind, however, that if they don’t pay for your flight, it shouldn’t be held against them. Not all host families are loaded, and the expenses of an au pair can add up quickly. But again, don’t be afraid to request help if you need it.
