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Calling all au pairs – past and present – this is your page! Do you have advice to share with anyone else wanting to be an au pair? Experience that would benefit others? Stories to share about your au pair life? Feel free to add it to the comments below.

Questions are also welcome – Feel free to speak up if you have an answer to someone else’s question, don’t be shy … someone might benefit from your help!

If you are posting your email address to connect with others, be sure to put it in the following format (to limit spam): talya at bestaupairguide dot com

You can also submit your info/advice/stories to info@bestaupair.com. And for more tips on being an au pair, don’t forget to to check out my eBook.

p.s. Please note that this section is NOT a place to post that you are looking for an au pair to hire. If you need an au pair, please consult an au pair agency. Due to fraud, I will not approve any au pair job offers or similar comments here. See my post on au pairs and human trafficking if you need more on this issue.

335 Responses to Forum

  1. Talya says:

    Hi Eszter! How are you liking that part of Germany?

  2. Julianne says:

    Hello,
    I have already found a family in Spain and I am trying to get my visa off. The only thing stopping me is that I have to registered in a school for at least 4 months. Does anyone know of any cheap spanish schools in barcelona?

    Thanks,
    Julianne

  3. Anna says:

    I’ve been sifting through a million au pair agencies, but which one is considered ‘the best’? I want to make sure that I’m not going to just get thrown somewhere and not have any help.

  4. I think those who are interested candidates for the job of Au Pair must search for the some good Au Pair agency in the area they want job….. I hope for the best and wish all of you a very best of luck. I also like to congratulate the site owner who are providing the assistance to the aspiring Au Pairs in having the perfect job………

  5. Shaye Danielle Gilson says:

    hey Noora
    im Shaye and im also Au pairing in the Netherlands..I arrived on the 30th of July-my email is Shaye@starmail.co.za if you wana catch up .=)

  6. Hanna says:

    Anyone au pairing in Vienna? :)

  7. Hallo Sophie,

    ich war auch als Aupair in England. Ich bin aber nicht über eine Agentur gegangen sonder über eine Internetplatform. Damit war ich sehr zufrieden ich kanns nur weiter empfehlen. Aber es kommt immer darauf an was dir Wichtig ist.

    Ich hoffe ich konnte dir weiterhelfen

  8. Talya says:

    Hi Laura,

    ich war auch damals nicht mit einer Agentur gegangen, und es ging eigentich. Aber trotzdem finde ich es sicherer mit eine Agentur eine Gastfamilie zu finden, denn man weiss nie was passieren kann. :)

  9. Erin says:

    Hi Noora and Shaye!

    I am still in the process of getting a position through my agency, but I hope to be in the Netherlands by November. What cities are you two in? If you have any tips for when I am picking my host family and city or about living in the Netherlands I would love to hear them!
    Hope to hear from you
    :) – Erin.

  10. Noora says:

    Hi ERIN!

    I’m staying in Sassenheim. Netherlands is such a small country so where ever you live here, everything is still pretty close. I found my family at Aupair-world.net
    Where are you from?
    Hope you will arrive here soon!

    -Noora

  11. Sofia says:

    @Sophie
    This is a good agency to go with! http://www.aupairinamerica.com/

  12. Sofia says:

    Are there any au pairs near Livorno Italy???

  13. Hanna says:

    anyone in PARIS, France???

  14. Julia says:

    Hey Hanna,
    I’m gonna be in Paris in three days. :) Which country are you from? :)

  15. lisa says:

    Hallo!!!

    Is anyone Au Pairing in the south of Germany? I am specifically in Ellwangen, but I have means of transportation!! Please email me at xbriighteyes@yahoo.com. Hope to hear from some one!! :]

    Lisa

  16. Hanna says:

    Julia, I’m from Finland and I’ll be in Paris September 10th (the family lives in little village 30 mins from there though)

    send me a message xehanna@yahoo.com if you want to be more in touch! Would be nice to know someone there :)

  17. Iina says:

    If somebody is in Vienna, Austria, please contact me! I’ll be there at the end of september and would love to meet other aupairs :) My email address: iinuska91@gmail.com

  18. Lily Cherpokova says:

    Dear All, my name is Lily and I have a wonderfull au-pair from Spain. We are based in UK, Lymington on the South Coast. Does any body knows any au-pairs in the aria. I would love Noelia (that is her name) to make some friends!!!!!!!!!! tyhank you very much for your help!!!!!!!!!!!!1

    XXXX

  19. Malin says:

    Hallo!
    I’m staying in Cuxhaven, Germany. Gonna be here for one year. Is there any other Au-Pairs out there who stays nearby? Please contact me!
    malla_mulle@hotmail.com

  20. Josie says:

    Hey all – I arrived in The Hague a few days ago from the UK to au pair for a family in the centre of the city, and I was wondering if there were any other au pairs in the area that would like to meet up, please e-mail me josie_rimmer@hotmail.com :)

  21. Riikka Kämäräinen says:

    Hi,
    I’m Finnish girl and I will go Biringen in next month. Anyone near by it?=)

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  23. Christina Mirjam says:

    Are there any au pairs in the east of Holland?? :D

  24. Raquel says:

    Hi there! Is anyone else aupairing in or near Madrid???

  25. Sarah says:

    Raquel–I’ll be au pairing in Madrid starting september 17! When do you get there?

  26. Alexandra says:

    Hello are there any au pairs in Manhattan , New York

  27. Crystal Godfrey says:

    Hi,

    I will be going to the Charente region of France near Limoges in November. Is there anyone around this area? Email me: crystal dot d dot godfrey at hotmail dot com

    Crystal x

  28. Sandra says:

    Hey Noora, Shaye and Erin!

    My name is Sandra and I’m also working as an au pair in the Netherlands.
    If you wanna have a chat, email me :)

    Speachleess@hotmail.com

  29. Jolie says:

    Hi! Are there any au pairs who are in Paris? Or anyone who has been? I am planning on going next year and I would love some advice! Which agencies are the best to use? Are the online matching sites reliable?
    Thanks,
    Jolie

  30. Robyn Huxter says:

    Hi,

    I am an au pair in Paris, France. Is there anyone else? I have been here for two weeks now and it has been difficult meeting people, especially other au pairs. I am from Canada, speak English and French. Would love to meet up with some people if possible! Feel free to email me: robyn11mh@gmail.com!

  31. Anita says:

    Hi Robyn,

    I am also an Au-Pair in Paris! I spek (Swiss) German, French and English. Would be nice meeting you, I am going to inbox you!

  32. Brogan says:

    hi!

    I am going to be an au pair in South Australia, Australia. Anyone else going to be near Adelaide? I will be there in the middle of March. This is my first time as an au pair and I’m super nervous!!

    thanks in advance!!!! :)

  33. Julianne says:

    Hello Everyone,

    I am an au pair in Cergy, France. I only speak a little bit of french, hardly any. Please let me know if you are au pairing near bye!

    Thanks!

  34. Stacy says:

    My name is Anastassiya, i am au-pair from Middle Asia, i speak English, German. I was au-pair in the USA, Florida 1 year, and March 2011, i came back home to my home country.
    I am 27yo now, but i would like to continue my au-pair experience. Now i am looking for a new host family for me especially in Scandinavian counties: Norway, Denmark, Finland. Dear girls does any body of you know some good sites or agency who really can help to find a host family for me in my 27 yo? Does anybody of you from these Scandinavian countries originally? or somebody who already worked there? What can you advise to me? I would be really happy to communicate with all of you if you wish. I know its hard to be au-pair from my own experience, i had 3 families in USA, 4, 2, 3 kids were in each family and i know its hard, but useful and interesting and cool.

    Who knows the best Agency?
    Who knows FREE best au-pair websites?

    I worked with ExpertAu-pair Agency in USA, Florida – this is very, very, very bad agency which never help you at all, never call you, never help you to change a family!!!

    If you can HELP me please do !!! I would really appreciate, thank you girls,
    Yours Anastassiya

    Skype: taurus-stacy24
    e’mail: taurus-stacy24@mail.ru

  35. estelle says:

    hi,
    my name is Estelle, I am french… I am au pair in Portland (oregon), actually I am looking for others au pairs who would be interested to join me for a week end trip to san fransisco on october or november. I really want to visit this city!!! don’t hesitate, and contact me. this is my mailbox; estelle_nougatkyu@hotmail.fr ;)

  36. Ade says:

    Hi everyone!

    I´ll arrive to The Hague in November. I would like to meet new people :-) Is there some au pair in this area? My e-mail is: adelina.diaz.diaz@gmail.com

    Greetings.

  37. DESROCHERS says:

    Hello !

    I’m Sophie and I’m au pair since 3 weeks in Yorkshire, Boroughbridge exactly.
    I would like to explore England (Manchester, Liverpool, Newcastle, London…) and met other au pair. If you’re in the same area as me, contact me ;-)
    I’ll be very happy to know you !

    See you soon,
    Sophie

  38. miss sunshine says:

    Are there any aupairs around bournemouth? (:
    xx

  39. Cristina says:

    Hiii!
    Is there any au pair in Trento (Italy)? I’ve been here for 4 days and I would love to make some friends :)

  40. Cristina says:

    If so… my email is kristina_15_801@hotmail.com
    Hope to hearing from you!

  41. Ashleigh says:

    Hi!

    I am currently a nanny in Washington DC, but would love to be an au pair overseas next year. Does anyone have a good agency recommendation? I am mostly finding programs for au pairs that want to come to the US. I’d also love to hear your experiences!

    xoxo Ashleigh

  42. peyton sawyer says:

    Hello everyone! I’m moving to Lancaster, Lancashire (UK) at the end of October. Is there any au pair in this area? Or the area of Leeds, Manchester, Liverpool? Hope I will meet you soon xx

  43. Florence says:

    Hi,
    are there any other au pairs living in Trento, Italy? Moved here 2 weeks ago and haven’t met any other English speakers yet..
    Feel free to email me.
    Florence x

  44. Santa says:

    Join to this website – http://www.chooseaupair.com, and find a really nice family for you.
    They will make personal au pair profile for you, and the next host family will easily find you. It’s totally free!
    They made changed old website, and there is new now, so they are looking for a nice au pair girls.

  45. maiju says:

    Hi!
    Are there any aupairs in southern england? I just started working here in west sussex a few weeks ago, and would love to get in touch with people, as I really don’t know anyone yet… My email is maijuh92@gmail.com , hope to hear from you soon:)

  46. Anni says:

    Hi London Au Pairs!
    Are there any Au Pairs near Croydon or London? I am an Au Pair from Estonia & came here in the middle of September and would like find some friends to hang out in weekends, go to shopping, conserts, live-shows, museums, partys etc..

    Anni :)

  47. Anni says:

    Hi!
    Are there any Au Pairs near the Croydon or anywhere in London? I have been here for month and would like to friend some friends to hang out with in weekends.

    Hope to hear from you soon ! :)

  48. Katja says:

    Hi,
    I’m looking into being an au pair in France, but can’t decide which agency to go through. I’m looking into Eroupair and Interexchange. Has anyone gone though either of these organizations, or any better agencies? Thanks,
    -Katja

  49. Shae Healey says:

    Hi Talya,

    I’m a reporter for a newspaper in Portland, OR, and I’m hoping to speak with you regarding your experience in the au pair industry. Please feel free to reach me via email. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

    Best,
    Shae Healey

  50. Carla says:

    Hello,
    My name is Carla, and I’ll be starting soon as an Au Pair in Central London.
    As I don’t know anyone, I would like to meet friends, so we can talk and hang out :)
    my email is carlasbafonso@gmail.com.

    ***

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